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Dating with clear intentions

Same page. New person.

We're building Wivmee, a dating app where you only meet people nearby who want what you want: a relationship, something casual or open to exploring. Your intent isn't a line in your bio. It decides who you meet.

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Say what you want. Meet people who want it too.

  • A relationship

    Someone to build something with. You'll meet people who are ready to make time for it.

  • Something casual

    Chemistry and good company, no long-term plans. Everyone knows the deal from the first message.

  • Open to exploring

    Not sure yet is a fine answer. You'll meet people who are open too.

It's a paid membership for everyone, so nobody's here for time-pass.

How it will work

  1. Pick your intent

    A relationship, casual or open to exploring. Change it whenever you like, and the people you're talking to see the change.

  2. See people who want the same

    Wivmee shows you people near you whose intent fits yours.

  3. Talk when it's mutual

    A chat opens only when you both say yes. No messages from people you never picked.

A first look

Early preview. Designs will change.

Choose what you're here for
Intent on every profile
Chat opens when it's mutual

Why join now

  • First invites in your city. Invites go out in batches, and the waitlist goes first.
  • See it before anyone else. We'll share screens as we build them.
  • Shape what we build. Your answers decide what comes first.

Invites depend on how many people in your city want the same kind of connection. So we won't promise a date we can't keep.

Opening first in

Then city by city. Somewhere else? Join anyway. Every signup tells us where to open next.

Questions

How is Wivmee different from other dating apps?

On most apps, what you want is a line in your bio. On Wivmee it decides who you meet. You pick a relationship, something casual or open to exploring, and only see people who picked the same. Everyone pays, and a chat opens only when you both say yes.

Is Wivmee for serious relationships?

Yes, if that's what you want. Pick a relationship and you'll only meet people who picked it too. Something casual and open to exploring are there for people who want those, so nobody has to guess.

What does dating with clear intentions mean?

You say upfront what you want, and you meet people who want the same. Some call it intentional dating. On Wivmee it isn't a promise in a bio. It's how matching works.

Is Wivmee free?

Joining the waitlist is free. Wivmee itself will be a paid membership, so everyone you meet chose to be there. One membership with everything in it: no tiers, and nothing sold on top. You'll see the price before you accept an invite.

Can anyone message me?

No. A chat opens only when you both say yes, so you never get messages from people you didn't pick.

When does it open?

Invites go out city by city, once enough people nearby want the same kind of connection. We'll email you real progress every couple of weeks.

Who can join?

Adults 18 and over.

What do you do with my email?

We use it for the waitlist and launch updates only. We don't sell it, and we only share it with the services that host this site and send our emails. Every email has an unsubscribe link, and you can ask us to delete your details at any time. Read the privacy policy.

Why do I need to confirm my email?

So the list only counts real people. It takes one click.

How do I reach you?

Write to hello@wivmee.com. A person reads every email.

Your city opens when enough of you are in.

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